I have discovered that many people that fail in life have very good reasons for failing. They have very pathetic stories they tell to secure pity from the eyes of people. This makes them feel comfortable, and as such they have no regret nor any motivation to change their pitiable condition.
Know that there is no story that is good enough to act as an evidence for failing in life. We are to work hard and move against all odds in life through the grace of God. Destroy any “evidence for failure” the the devil or life’s circumstances present you to make you a failure.